My dawdling eater

L decided to take 50 minutes to eat her breakfast this morning, and one entire hour for lunch today.  Drove me f*ing bananas.  Breakfast was 3 oz of yogurt, half a bagel, and a small cup of milk.  THAT'S IT.  Lunch was turkey pieces (probably the equivalent to one larger piece of lunch meat), three strawberries (she ate those in 30 seconds), slices of hard-boiled egg (requested), and juice.  I DON'T GET IT.  What do I have to do to get her to not stare off in space for 10 minutes between bites?!?!?  It's driving me batty!  I've even just left the table with E to try to get her to eat faster (she doesn't like being at the table alone), but that does nothing.  ARGH!  Then, she eats dinner in about 20 minutes tonight.  *bangs head against wall*  If anyone needs me, I'll be over in this corner tearing my hair out.